21 Questions For a New Christian Relationship

When it comes to Christian relationships, it’s important to remember that they should be centered on God and built on a foundation of love, respect, and trust. Here are 21 questions that you may want to ask your partner or yourself as you navigate a Christian relationship:

  1. How do you feel about spiritual disciplines such as fasting and why?
  2. What is your understanding of God and how does it affect your daily life?
  3. How do you see our relationship aligning with God’s plan for our lives?
  4. What are your core values and how do they align with mine?
  5. How do you handle conflicts and disagreements in a relationship?
  6. How do you express love and affection in a relationship?
  7. How do you balance your personal and spiritual life?
  8. How important is prayer and Bible study to you in a relationship?
  9. What are your goals and aspirations, and how can I support you in achieving them?
  10. How do you envision our future together, and what steps are we taking to get there?
  11. How do you prioritize serving others and living a life of selflessness?
  12. How do you handle challenges and obstacles in your life, and how can we support each other through them?
  13. How do you maintain healthy boundaries in a relationship?
  1. How do you prioritize spending time with God, and how can we encourage each other to do so?
  2. How do you approach forgiveness and reconciliation in a relationship?
  3. How do you handle temptation and stay faithful to God in a relationship?
  4. How do you see us growing together in our faith and spiritual journey?
  5. How do you prioritize communication and open dialogue in a relationship?
  6. How do you balance personal and relational growth with your own self-care?
  7. How we you stay accountable to God and to each other in our relationship?
  8. How can we continue to grow in our love for each other and our love for God?


These questions are meant to foster open and honest communication in a new Christian relationship. It is important to understand each other’s beliefs, values, and expectations before committing to a long-term relationship.

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